Wednesday, April 07, 2010


4 BR
3 BA
2-Car Garage
2 Living Areas (with built-ins & projector/screen)
Formal Dining
Updated Surfaces
Gas Log Fireplace
Water Well
Covered Patio
Large, Shaded Back Yard
Large Master Suite w/ cast-iron soaking tub, dual-head shower, walk-in closet & dedicated water heater in Master Bath
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Approximately 2575 square feet including improvements added in 2008.
Austin/Mann/Abilene High
Great neighborhood
Quiet street
And much, much more!

$189,900

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Monday, March 30, 2009

Ripples

People have been very kind in their expressions of concern since Dad passed away a few weeks ago. Our family has benefited from many meals, cards, flowers, memorials and the like and all are appreciated. Perhaps one of the more touching things we have received, though, is the letter below. It’s especially meaningful in light of how Dad thought his attempt at teaching high school was a pathetic failure. This letter, however, shows how even when we may think our efforts are miserable or unnoticed or influence may have more impact than we ever realize. Still waters may run deep, but maybe that lets those droplets of influence travel that much further.


Dear Family of Victor Durrington:

I am writing to express my sympathy to you for the recent death of your loved one.

I knew Mr. Durrington briefly during the 1954-55 academic year when he taught in the Republic, Missouri, High School. I was a freshman in high school at that time and enrolled in a general math course taught by him. Thanks to his effort, that turned out to be a very special course for me - one of the most significant courses I took in high school. Three of us in that class benefited from special pains he took on our behalf. He recognized that the three of us - two boys and one girl - were more talented and knowledgeable in math than the rest of the general math class in which we were enrolled. He offered us the opportunity to study trigonometry book, I assume from his personal library, and let us work through those books at our own pace. We sat in the general math class, but read and did homework problems from the trigonometry texts. It must have taken considerable courage on his part to risk his teaching reputation by allowing us as very immature high school freshmen to chart our own course that year. I marvel that he did this at a very young age – I calculate he was 21 or 22 at the time – and with very little experience at teaching. The Republic position must have been his first teaching position after graduating from college.

The seeds he planted in that course surely were significant in pushing us toward our eventual education and careers. The two boys in that group each went on to earn PhDs in physics: mine from the University of Missouri at Rolla and the other boy earned his PhD in physics at the University of Wisconsin in Madison. The girl in that group earned her degree from Indiana State University in Terre Haute (I think, although I am not certain) and went on to marry a gentleman who became president of a small college. I recently retired from a 39 year career teaching physics at what is now Missouri State University. The three of us acquired a strong interest in mathematics and a head start on our mathematics education thanks to Mr. Durrington’s insight and daring. I think the results of his teaching are pretty remarkable, considering we were members of a freshman class of less than 40 students in a small high school in a somewhat isolated farming community in Southwest Missouri during the mid-1950s, well before the population and technology explosions that have occurred in the Springfield area in the last 40 years.

It is somewhat ironic that last Wednesday (March 4), I think the day before Mr. Durrington passed away, I had visited the other boy in the group who studied trigonometry, and in the course of our discussion we reminisced about the trigonometry we learned in that freshman math class. I have not seen Mr. Durrington since that freshman year, and I regret that I never got to thank him in person for the contribution he made to my life.

Sincerely,
Bob Thurman
Emeritus Professor of Physics
Missouri State University

3/9/2009

Friday, March 06, 2009

Funeral Arrangements

The memorial service for Victor Durrington will be Monday afternoon at 2:00pm at the Southern Hills Church of Christ auditorium.

Visitation will be Sunday afternoon at 4:00pm at Piersall-Benton Funeral Home.

Internment will be Wednesday morning at 10:00 at the Riverview-Swinney Cemetary near Buffalo, Missouri.

Thursday, March 05, 2009

March 5, 7:50

Dad passed away this evening at 7:40. We are a strange cocktail of angry, thankful and wracked with grief. Thank you for the prayers for our family. While what we feel right now is a pain greater than we could have imagined, knowing someone like my Dad makes this and every other trial we will ever face easier and more hopeful.

Val

March 5, 7:00pm

None of us can know how close Dad is to leaving us, but about an hour ago they called a code on him. He is still hanging on, but barring some event none of the doctors or nurses can fathom we are now standing as sentries to his passing in the coming hours. We appreciate the prayers many of you have offered to this point and hope that now that you know with a bit more specificity what is happening you can offer whatever prayer you feel is appropriate.

Val

Victor's Status

Many have been asking about the situation with Dad and, honestly, I forget to whom I have told what. To assist in this rather cumbersome process, I am dragging out the old blog idea once again. This particular entry will remain at the top of those listed. Thereafter, the newest entries will be at the top (directly below this one).

In August of 2007 Dad was diagnosed as being severely anemic. This diagnosis was incorrect (good catch, Gene). Shortly thereafter he was diagnosed as having leukemia. We're still not sure if this was exactly right but it seems like the eventual diagnosis they landed on was a sort of lymphoma/myeloma hybrid. Whatever it ends up being called, it's basically a cancer that doesn't follow the rules. In the several months since, it has been treated with some chemo and a LOT of transfusions. In more recent months he has been getting two units of blood per week.

His treatment has been under the guidance of an oncologist here in Abilene and specialists at the MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston. A few weeks ago he and Colleen had been there for several days of tests- some due to the fact that Dad had been experiencing a new development in the form of pain. The tests they ran showed nothing that would indicate the cancer was progressing in a way that would cause any pain. The day after they got back to Abilene, however, the pain had reached a level where Colleen texted me during church asking if I could help her get him to the hospital. We got him to the ER where they gave him morphine and sent him home. A few nights later he was still in pain and had grown weak to the point where he fell. Wednesday mprning Colleen and I got him up and to the hospital where he was admitted.

Though many think people go to the hospital to get better, Dad's condition merely spiralled downward. His kidneys were looking like they might be failing, he had double pneumonia, he was too weak to stand and Monday evening his oxygen saturation level was well below critical level. I truly did not think he would see Tuesday.

Tuesday dawned, however, with a new diagnosis. A blood culture had suggested he had Cryptococcus Neoformans and a spinal tap confirmed it. Essentially this is a fungus in his blood that had attacked everything- lungs, brain, kidneys, central nervous system- you name it. The doctors said this condition was most commonlyseen in people who had exposure to birds or bird droppings. Dad has no birds, is not a bird hunter, has no guano-centric hobbies... He did grow up on a farm and they had chickens so it could be that this fungus was basically dormant for years until the diminished immunity common in cancer patients allowed it to flourish.

Now a team of doctors including (but not limited to) oncologists, infectious disease specialists, pulmonologists, nephrologists, neurologists and urologists are in a process of guiding dad through at least a few month of intense antibiotics to work on the fungus, breathing treatments to work on the pneumonia, IVs to work on the kidneys, transfusions to work on the cancer, etcetera. At least a few more weeks of this will be in the hospital and then a few months more will be on an outpatient basis.

I am not a doctor, of course, and I apologize for the gaps and errors in this narrative, but one comment that stuck out among the things the doctors said was that the first signs of success in this course of treatment would be from the neck up. Sadly, however, this seems to be the area of the least amount of progress. Dad is showing signs of improvement in his lungs, kidneys and general strength, but frankly, he is not exactly with us mentally. He has moments that are better than others but those moments are rare and short-lived. I have no idea how many days are ahead but suffice it to say they will be difficult.

Thanks for checking in. Updates will not be regular nor very intelligent but I'll try to let you know if there are at least any significant changes.

Val

March 5

Attempts at sedation are still proving unsuccesful. Dad has been completely incoherent for a few days now but the crying out and moaning are back and constant. Another lumbar puncture (spinal tap) revealed more infection and tests are being done to see if perhaps more cancer as well. Grim...

Wednesday, March 04, 2009

March 4, Cont

I have been here with Dad for 3 hours and he has been sleeping the whole time. It's awesome! I, on the other hand, cannot figure out how all of these nurses became so chatty.

March 4, Cont.

For whatever reason the doctors do not want to move Dad to ICU but they have said they are recommending hospice to make him comfortable.

March 4

Last night was a horrible night. Dad is suffering a great deal, though he is so incoherent we are not sure exactly how. He appears to be in a lot of pain but morphine was not doing the trick and the sedatives being tried were not working either. His fits subsided around 5:30 this morning and he had been asleep for around an hour when I came home. How Colleen continues to function blows my mind. I, myself, have not slept in over 29 hours. Pray for Colleen and pray for Dad's peace.

Tuesday, March 03, 2009

March 3, 2009

Tests indicate a much lesser degree of the fungus but his condition is not improving at all. His metal state is deteriorating further and he seems to be in a great deal of pain. Frankly, the doctors seem to be at a bit of a loss for what to do. True to his nature, however, he keeps insisting through the haze that he's "gotta get up a do something." He never was good at sitting still...

Monday, March 02, 2009

Correction

Correction: The cancer that doesn't play by the rules has a better name than what I gave before. It is a hybrid of T-cell Lymphoma and B-cell Myeloma.

Staph

We can add a Staph infection to the growing list.

Update

I'm afraid Dad looks pretty bad today. He is extremely tired and confused today. He is also not wanting to eat. This follows on the heels of a pretty rough night. Oncologist will be here later.

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

"Well, that may work with your mom, but it will not work with my mom."
Addie to a friend.


Gotta love that girl.

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

Spring Break 2007

Okay. I admit it. We arrived home worn out and sore, but skiing was awesome this year. The weather was absolutely beautiful and just look at the picture- the company I kept was great. Beautiful wife. Great kids. And you know I love the mountains. We are indeed blessed.

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Guess Where We Were

Sometimes we were on an island- like for this picture...





Sometimes we were among lots of animals, like these:



Or these...




There were flying boats...



Spaceships...



And more...

Wednesday, January 10, 2007




We also rode rides like this...





Which actually went inside this...






We saw a beautiful house that looked like this...








And like this at night...




In a land populated by giant rodents; like these...













Friday, June 09, 2006

Pardon Me for Staring

I really like driving the kids around town. I mean, once you get past the battle for "shotgun" and get everyone loaded and get on the way to whatever destination is on the agenda, it is as though the kids sometimes forget there is an adult in the car. The conversations are quite enlightening if I can resist the urge to chime in and simply listen. The other day we were leaving Dixie (our baseball complex) and I had Michal Kate and Addie in the car. In this particular case they were both in tha back seat talking about some little girl who apparently had a desperate crush on Connor.

Addie said, "She just kept staring at him and staring at him and I told her, 'Stop staring at him!' and she said 'I can't help it' and I said 'Stop staring at him' and she said 'I love his smile' and I said 'Quit staring at him' and she said 'I can't stop' and I said "Stop staring at him. Give up. Just get him out of your mind!"

(Note: I know that was a bit of a run-on sentence, but that's how Addie talks.)

Anyway, it cracked me up so I relayed the conversation to Connor. Suffice it to say, I did not get to see that pretty smile as a response.

Wednesday, May 24, 2006


Here is an interesting picture of a certain family member who shall remain nameless. Does anyone want to offer any possible captions?